Wednesday, 16 July 2014

Hair Post- Considering A Lob












It was considered the "IT" hairstyle for 2013. Soooooo, I guess that means that I am a year late to the party.



But I am now considering a Lob Haircut.



The term "Lob" refers to a long bob. A Lob should be shoulder-length or slightly longer. It should be relatively blunt at the bottom (or at least, those are the ones that I prefer), with very little layering throughout. You can have a Lob with bangs or without.




Considering my hair right now is halfway down my back (or a bit longer than that), I need to give it a bit more thought. 




I also need to consider my laziness and lack of time (but mostly laziness) when it comes to keeping up a haircut. Right now I cut my hair every few months, but with a lob, I would need to cut it every 8 weeks or so to keep it's shape.




Whether or not I take the plunge and actually cut my locks, the Lob is definitely my favourite hairstyle right now.




Here are some of my favourite Lobs:






Straight Lobs















Wavy Lobs




















Curly Lobs















What do you think? Are Lobs a hit or a miss in your opinion?



I'll be sure to update with a photo IF I do cut my hair....If it's in good-enough shape- I'm hoping to donate it......






Thanks for reading.



Peace.







UPDATE:


I actually ended up hacking at it myself the next morning.

I figured if I waited, I would lose my nerve.




My pile of cut hair. Unfortunately it was too processed/ not quite long enough to donate. :(



After my hair was cut, I put some waves in with a 1 1/4 inch curling iron.



After- my bathroom selfie. ;) 



After- with my sister's professional camera  



Loving the Lob so far. Hoping I can keep it up.... I've already decided that it WILL be long again, though. ;)




Friday, 4 July 2014

A Life Well-Lived





I attended a "Celebration of Life" service this afternoon. It was for a woman from my church. The service was one filled with laughter, tears and fond memories of a life that was well-lived.



I've been writing recently on how much my 'community' has meant to me in the recent months, and years. How, when I feel like I just cannot possibly go on, I know that I can rely on my network of friends, family and church community to keep me going.





This service was for one of those women who kept me going. 


This woman stopped in with Mac & Cheese for us shortly after my youngest was born a few weeks ago. She made sure to sit down with me, to share a hug- to talk to each of my boys and to make sure they knew that they were loved and a part of our church family.

She was a whirlwind of compassion that left almost as quickly as she arrived (so as not to disturb our evening) and I will never forget that time.


As well, every Sunday morning since, she has asked if there was anything I need or if there was anything that she could do for me or for the boys. She always had other people's emotional as well as physical health on the forefront of her mind.

She was a retired nurse that never retired from caring for others.




Why do I share about her?

Because I never made it clear to her how much that casserole dish of  Mac & Cheese meant to me. And yet she kept asking if there was more that she could do. I thanked her, of course, but I don't know if she realized the impact that she had on me.

Maybe I never realized that impact myself- until this afternoon.


I expect that she didn't know fully how she had affected so many of the people that were sitting in that service today. But sadly, that's usually the way isn't it?


I believe she knew she was making a difference. But her 'reward' wasn't an earthly reward. She knew this. She understood why community was important. She knew how to love 'the least of these' well.





WHY do I share about her?


I suppose to encourage you to let people know if they've been a positive impact in your life. To let them know how much their actions or words mean to you. To be a person of encouragement to THEM- and to keep THEM going when they feel weary. 





Why else do I share about her?


To encourage you to BE one of those people of compassion to others. To feed the people around you if they are hungry. To spend time with the lonely. To visit those that are shut-in. To listen to the ones who feel that they don't have a voice. 



THAT was the person that Muriel was.

That is the person that I strive to be.







There has been a phrase said many times in the last few days since her passing. By many people. That is because all who knew her are sure that it must be true.

There is NO DOUBT in anyone's mind that when she reached the pearly gates of heaven she heard those words, "Well done- good and faithful servant".


May it be so for me.


May we all strive to live a life as well-lived as she did. 





Blessings.






Thursday, 3 July 2014

Great Wet-Hair Styles For Summer






Summer is FINALLY here!!!




This is the season for splash-pads and pools. For oceans and lakes. For jumping out of the shower and styling your hair without the heat of a dryer. 







That is why I LOVE these quick and easy hair tutorials for wet-hair styles from Hair Romance.











Here are my favourites:









The Fishtail Ponytail






(Click here for tutorial) 













The Fishtail Bun






(Click here for tutorial)













The Loose Triple Bun







 (Click here for tutorial)












The Side Twist Bun






 (Click here for tutorial)












I hope you try these styles out and love them! 



They should be fabulous for running out the door with wet hair and still looking great!



And the absence of a blow dryer is just better for our world, as well. :)



Peace.





Wednesday, 2 July 2014

The Perfect Kijiji-ed Birthday Gift





For my 3-year-old's birthday present, I watched kijiji for a few days.


Right now (and pretty much since the day he was born), he is into all things superhero.


I picked up this bag of various superheroes for $10. Pretty good score, huh?


It included a few Batman's,  Robin, Aquaman, Penguin, Gorilla Grodd , Joker, Riddler, and many others. :)



The same day, I popped into Talize to see if they had anything I could add to the gift. I found a DC Super Friends book for 99 cents. It was perfect.







 It had a spot in the back that I could put the figurines.




He loved it. :)





I threw in a swimsuit for $3.99. He loved THAT almost as much. Haha.











Getting a gift for my kid that he loves for $14.99 total- I LOVE that.


I realize that there MAY come a day when my kids beg me for something brand new. But until then, I will try to impart my views of thrifting and buying second-hand, and to explain WHY I believe that it is important.



Try thrifting your next birthday gift. :)  The earth will thank you. 





Peace and blessings.









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