Wednesday, 21 May 2014

S-weet Ideas For S- Hooks Around The Home













The other day I was rummaging through my tool-bench - which is really just a mish-mash of screwdrivers, screws, nails, and a hammer- and came across a bag of S-hooks.


I'm not quite sure where or when I purchased these hooks. Most likely I acquired them at the ReStore or at Reuse Center on one of my visits.



I decided to check Pinterest for some ideas of how to use these hooks around my home and I found some really fabulous ones.






For Your Bedroom Closet:





These hooks are great for keeping purses,


 scarves,


jewelry,


and belts organized.



I also love this idea of attaching bars to the underside of shelving and hanging hooks from there. Its a great way to utilize some unused space.











For The Kitchen:




I really like this idea for hanging mugs so that they are right where you need them. I think that this idea would look as cute with mismatched mugs as with a matching set.


How wonderful is this idea for a hanging herb garden? All you need is a tension rod and you can grow these herbs anywhere.



I love, love, love this repurposed ladder into pot/ pan holder. Seriously cute.










For Play:




These hooks are a simple way to hang dress up clothes and costumes for the kids.


 And what a great way to keep craft supplies and hardware organized.














For The Front Hall Or Closet:




They are an easy and clutter-free way to keep everything you need on your way out the door close at hand.




 I love this idea for keeping shoes organized. I could see boots held together with a binder clip or something similar hanging on these hooks as well.





Just a few ideas to encourage you to think of new ideas for old products.


I love that you can find similar bars to these (to hang the hooks on) at any thrift shop for a few dollars in with the bathroom supplies. You can find various colours, or spay paint the bars to be any colour that you wish.




Happy thrifting/ repurposing!




Blessings









Thursday, 15 May 2014

Make A Statement With A Statement Necklace




I am now at the point after having a baby when I hate all of my clothes. Nothing fits. Maternity clothing is too big. My normal clothes are still too small. I refuse to buy anything in between. Well, I refuse to buy MUCH in between....



So I decided to do a post on accessories instead of thrifted outfits. Accessories fit no matter what your waist size is. ;)





I am seeing 'Statement Necklaces' all over again this season.


I am a big fan.


I especially LOVE when they are paired with a simple tee or a chambray (denim) shirt.



I was checking out Talize's website to see if they had a sale coming up any time soon, and they had a post on Statement Necklaces, as well. 




Whether you are looking at thrift shops or consignment shops, Statement Necklaces are a fabulous way to keep current for a relatively small amount of money.






Here are some of my favourite Statement Necklace with 'Tees' looks:
































Here are some paired with button-down tops. I simply LOVE the first one with the two layered necklaces. Beautiful.


















Here is a way to make your own DIY statement necklace. You just need to wind a few thinner, similar chains around one another. What a great idea! You can find gold chains at thrift shop for just a few dollars each.














Alternatively, if you prefer beads to bling, or if you prefer to not have to dig through thrift shops for jewelry, OR if you just want to support a local, fairly-traded accessory company- you can buy one of these beautiful Statement Necklaces from JustOne. I did a post on this fabulous company here.







These Ugandan Necklaces range from $25-$28 each. 









How do YOU like to wear YOUR Statement Necklace?




If you DO go looking for necklaces at Talize- bring in a couple of large bags of clothing and you will receive 20% off your purchase. :)








Peace.




Thursday, 1 May 2014

Babymooning In The Never New Home




(Capturing Imagination Photography





Twelve days ago my life changed yet again.



My third child, a baby boy, was born.




Lately I have been sharing about how nervous I have been coming up to his birth. About how scared I was that I couldn't handle another child. About how worried I was that I wouldn't bond with him.




Even in the midst of labour, my nurse asked me if I wanted him put up on my chest right away, or if I would prefer him to be taken to be cleaned and weighed first.



I didn't know how to answer.




What if they put him on me and I felt absolutely nothing for him? 




I don't believe I even DID give her an answer. Circumstances decided for me. They had seen a tiny bit of meconium in my amniotic fluid and when he came out, they assessed him and said "he's not breathing"...which was a GOOD thing. That meant that he had not breathed any of the meconium into his lungs, thankfully.




But, when I heard "He's not breathing" my motherly instincts kicked into high gear and I was so fearful for his health. I watched helplessly as they took him to the table and aspirated him. Still not hearing any noise from him, I looked at my friend who was in the room with me. She and all the doctors and nurses seemed calm. I wondered why no one else seemed worried! "He's still not breathing!" I thought.




When I finally heard his strong little cry, my heart began to melt. "He's okay", I sighed.





And so I began to fall desperately in love with my newest little man.




I can't help but want to protect him from any dangers that may come in his life. 




I can't stop my lips from grazing his soft little head. His cheeks. His mouth.







Turns out I DID have enough love in me to give. And my other two boys have been falling in love, too. 





Now we have the perfect little family. Me and my three boys.




And I couldn't be happier.



Or more tired. ;)




Blessings.












Tuesday, 8 April 2014

Three Weeks To Go And Feeling....





(Capturing Imagination Photography)





I guess I didn't realize when I posted about considering adoption, that people would be wondering what my decision would turn out to be.



Well, I will be keeping this baby. He is due in 3 weeks.



I am frequently asked how I am feeling.



I am not exactly sure how to answer this question.




I guess I am feeling terrified. 




I do, of course, realize that most parents-to-be feel some version of fear- even if we don't let on. Fear for the future of the child. Fear about wondering how we will ever support and raise this helpless baby to be a functioning (and hopefully contributing) member of society. Fear for the health of the baby. 




( Capturing Imagination Photography)




I absolutely have all of those fears.



But I have others that haunt me.



If I am truly honest with myself- I fear that I simply won't be enough. That I won't have enough energy in me for all 3 boys. That there just will not be enough time in the day to adequately love all 3 boys. That one, or two, or ALL of them will almost definitely miss out. 



I fear that the added pressure of buying a home and a larger vehicle in the past few months will cause me to be short with them. To focus more on money and less on just being in the 'NOW' with them. And that would be counter-productive of the life that I have tried so hard to set up for us until now. Of that, I am terrified.




I fear that I will make mistakes. Even though I KNOW that I will indeed make many, many, many in my lifetime- making mistakes in regards to my children causes a particularly horrible feeling of dread.






But I have an even worse fear.




I hate to admit this, but I am feeling absolutely, positively, BEYOND intimidated to meet this new baby.





(Capturing Imagination Photography


I worry that I won't feel a bond with him when he is born. What kind of mother feels this way? When I mention this to anyone- I am reassured that I will, in fact, bond with this baby. Probably immediately. But it is a fear that lingers. It is a fear that I can't seem to shake.





And I suppose all I am able to do about this fear is meet it straight on. To refuse to live in fear and vow to love this baby boy with all that I have in me to give. To be the best mother that I can possibly be to all 3 of my sons.




And to be honest with myself and with others when I need help with this. To lean on the support that I have in place. To be strong. To be wise. And to be gracious with myself when I falter.




So, in the next couple of weeks until this baby comes, I will strive to live in the opposite of fear. To be confident. To have faith. To try to be calm, brave, and assured. Assured that although some things I cannot control- he may have health problems, he may not grow up to be all that I dream for him- I can decide to love and accept him. And to give him a loving home with 2 brothers that will most certainly adore him.





(Capturing Imagination Photography








Peace and Blessings.



And updates to come...





Friday, 28 March 2014

In My Maternity Closet- A "Bar-Star" Dress Becomes An Awesome Maternity Shirt





I love getting things for free. 



Which means that some of my favourite words are when friends say to me, "I have some old clothes for you to go through."



It's pretty much better than Christmas for me.



I love recycling the items that I choose from a bag of cast-offs. I love breathing 'new life' into an item that someone has tired of. And I love finding a new use for an item, as well. 



This time, a "Bar-Star" dress becomes a Maternity Shirt.



In case you are unsure of what I mean by a "Bar-Star" dress, I mean the tight, slinky dresses that girls wear to go dancing in. They are quite stretchy- so you can dance comfortably in them- and this is perfect for a growing belly! And they are usually quite short- which means once the belly grows, they are a perfect shirt length.



Here's how I wear my dress-turned-maternity-shirt:











Oooooops, forgot to put on make-up. Pregnancy brain.... :s


Dress/ Shirt- Castoff from friend- Free
Pants- $5.99 Salvation Army Thrift Shop (Non-Maternity)
Boots- $19.99 Value Village (also seen here)
Necklace- Just One- World Changing Fashion 












Here I added a pop of colour with a teal cardigan.

Cardigan- $6.99 Value Village
Necklace- $8.99 Value Village







Thanks for reading, friends!



Hope this inspires you Mama's-to-be to browse the dress racks at your local thrift shop for some dress-turned-shirt options. :)



Blessings.







Tuesday, 11 March 2014

Spring 2014 Hair Trends





As a hairstylist, I like to keep up with the trends of the season. And for some reason, I find spring and summer trends the most exciting. ESPECIALLY when they involve beautiful flowers... like the first trend, from Bazaar:







Flowers In The Hair






(photos from Bazaar)



 It is probably my inner hippy or my gypsy background, but I absolutely LOVE it when hair is adorned with real flowers. It just has such a beautiful bohemian feel to it.












Old World Braids




(photos from Bazaar)



I have to admit, I am SO happy that braids are still on-trend this season. I also have to admit that I became addicted to the series "Vikings" simply because I was obsessed with the women's intricately braided locks. 













Gold Details






(photos from Bazaar)


Honestly not my favourite trend...but an easy way to dress up any plain hairstyle, for sure.










Untidy Updos


(photos from Bazaar)



This trend makes it super simple for you, the 'hair-untrained', to do an updo on yourself. Who cares if it is messy? You are actually MORE trendy that way! Just backcomb and pin! 










Choppy Pageboy Wings



(photos from Bazaar)



Again, not necessarily MY favourite, but if it appeals to you- then go ahead and try this style out! I would definitely recommend asking for a ton of texture though, so that you don't end up with a 'bowl' haircut. It would also be a good way to be on-trend and to grow out a shorter pixie cut.






And lastly, here are some fun Colour Trends for 2014. Photo from Sequins and Scissors.





I am seriously digging the Copper Penny and Brownie Sombre (a softer ombre) right now.


And hats off to anyone rocking the Silver Colour Trend right now. Love it.





Spring IS coming, friends. Maybe if we try a few of these hair trends, it will come even faster?? ;)






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